Now I am going to give away the secret of how you can make sex last as long as you want.
From the book:
Fundamentally the problem is that we don’t know what real sex is. And we don’t know what real sex is because we don’t know how to live in the moment, especially with another person.
We are ‘in our heads,’ in imagination most of the time. We are somewhere else. We don’t really inhabit our bodies.
In simple terms, if we want real sex, we have to be there.
Our habitual mind is full of associated thoughts, worries about tomorrow and replays of what happened yesterday. In addition, during sex we may have anxieties about not satisfying our woman, or fantasies which we do not share with her. We are controlled by these thoughts, they carry us along, and we have no control. The combination of anxiety and fantasy, unconnected with what is happening in the present moment, leads as often as not to premature ejaculation.
It seems strange to say that living in the present moment is something we have to learn, but it is true.
The heart of the method I detail in my book involves experiencing yourself, really being in your body without unnecessary thoughts, and being present to your woman. By focussing on her pleasure and forgetting about our own, you can, paradoxically, experience much more pleasure yourself, and with practice, control when you come.
There is a lot more in my book, but that is the heart of it.
Due to an error on my part the book is listed on Amazon at £19.00. From early February the price should be listed at its intended price of £9.97 (US$ 15.50). There are people out there who would charge you a lot more for a method of preventing premature ejaculation. Try this first. It works.
Amazon link: Last as Long as You Want in Bed